My Enamour 25th Birthday Surprise by My Enchant Prince, Iv :)

Today is my 25th birthday and i didnt feel excited, because:
1. i feel old even people always wrong with my age, and they convinced me that i still look young, babyface etc but it still doesnt change anything that im getting older. lols. well, people are getting old so its quite fine for me. 
2. i almost never hv a wonderful birthday, or in my case..normal bday. i dunno how, i dunno why.. but i always feel miserable and dejected on my birthday, its always gloomy. so i start hate my birthday since several years ago. i always give surprise bday party for my besties and some of my close friends, but people seems always forgot my birthday. well, but i tried to remember that i got a few surprises from my besties, twice maybe. but it make me so happy. not because the surprise itself, but because they remember my bday, they make my day, they put their effort to make that surprise. but actually i have the big problems here. so you know what? its because i always have problems, apart from the people. like problem and problem that make me so aweful. i always cried on my birthday, which is so silly. it so sad. Since that, i do not wish anything when my bday comes, but just one thing. there's no problem, theres no tears and just like the other normal days.

well..
we talk about iv now. so he did it. he succeed made me mad and hate him. lols. its because he always remind my bday since 1 month ago< and if people said that repetitively, its quite convincing that actualy he remind himself about my bday and make me sure enough that he won't give me any surprise. that surprise isnt that important for me (i dont want to be fake, but if give me one.. i will be so happy. most of ladies love little surprise) but his attendance is everything to me. so he said from this morning before my bday, then 10 hours, then 5 hours then so on till its 00.00 and he yell 'HAPPY BDAY TO ME" well, its annoyed me. i sleep soon after that, and then that morning when i arrived at the office i quite surprised when  i found the coco-banana pocky (my fav) and the hellokitty record doll. when i press her right hand, then theres iv's voice start to comfort me and made me smile, i press again and again. lols. i was so happy, then i press the left hand even its tell "DO NOT TOUCH' but thanks for my curiousity, i delete his voice. huhuhu... i will persuade him to sing the song and save his voice again to me.

Theres another problem here. Did i mention already that problem always come on my bday aka i hv bad day in my bday. so here it is. theres a case. it start from small case, but because of unawareness from me and my friend, plus the hatred guess so i got this. unawareness make me pay big deals for it. it so creepy and i cant do nothing of it, my office friends tricked me, they order jco and they told the one who order is me, and because i didnt order it so i didnt pay for it, but they insist and at the end theres someone who pay for it. lols. i know its a trap.

then when almost 5pm ppl gathered already, they prepare the eggs and cute owl bday cake for renata. it so cute. i already hv a bad feeling because they trap me already, so they know my bday all of sudden. but they supposed dunno about my bday, it must be someone who reveal it. hmmpphh.
Iv said that he's busy but he tried to manage the time so he could go to my home earlier to meet me up, i said i dont want to. i dont want to see anyone. im not in the good mood.
well, soon after that my suspiciousness is proved. because one by one of them throw me with the donuts, creamy and sticky. eww. they throw me so hard, and they throw on my hair, by body. well, especially my hair. nabila wanna throw up when she congrats me. hmm...
i wanna throw up too. lols.
but then elis come out with the tripple cheesecake and theres my name on it. 'iwiid' okay, i know everything eventually. ivan who give this cake, not my colleagues. because they just prepare for renata. and they know about my bday because of that cake. ergghh..i dunno that i have to thanks or mad at iv. 

i washed my hair, then i back home with elis. then after i arrived, suddenly i feel excited..
because actually i knew there is something, because i found some whimsicality, like:
Mom and dad ask me out today and they always picks me up then we go together so we dont waste time. and they never mention to have dinner with me. but i told iv that i will have dinner with them tonight, just in case if he wanna give me surprise at home. then my mom said that she will wait for me at home and hv dinner with me soon after that => i never mention to them about the dinner and them too.(weird #1) and she said that they cant pick me up because of traffic (weird#2) and both mom and dad text me to go home soon and ask where am i (weird#3) because of they decide to not pick me up, they will not expect to have soon dinner. haha..

so after i arrived, i look my parents sit on coach, then i went to the kitchen like usual and immidiately i enter my bedroom. aw aw. SURPRISE!!!!
Iv play the 'piano' and sing bday song then he play the bday song. after that he turn on the light then i can see the scrapbooks. (theres the pict in my IG), theres HAPPY BDAY IWIID. with all the pictures, accecories, photos and the wishes from both of my families, and also my besties. Geo and Lanny, Niq,Jess, Ana, depoy. theres no Fensia and Candy's, but they already congrats me by wa. thats more than enough. omg, iv so so lovely. he made all of these by himself. he's a guy, but he made all of this, i just.... well, im speechless. he cut and paste everything, he hang all of them, and its cute. im seriously love it. love it so much. he did that things for me. so touched. then when i saw my bedroom, i saw mowie, greenie, brownie and velline sit in circle, and in the middle theres a birthday card and  gifts, when i opened there re bag and wallet from FOREVER NEW, the things that i love but i didnt buy it yet because they expensive. huhuhu.. so happy about the gift and everything. 
then when i went out to shower, iv and kiky sang bday song with another bday cake, its an ice cake actually. and its from iv's parents. how nice. so i blow the candle then i showering because its late already. after it, i and iv take pictures with my dad's iphone. hahaha. and we had dinner together, and he told me everything. about the preparation especially.
it so wonderful. 

Thanks Iv.
Thanks for make my day.
Thanks to change my horrible birthday become a wonderful one.
I cant be happy without you.
Love you so much.

TZM-05 1023/CI

Well, another hongkong trip. quite boring actually, but i keep to manage it :)
Nah. what can i say from this group? If i said this group from hell, but its too harsh i guess. because not all the guests re disaster, some of the re very nice to me, and theres no serious accident, just a bit maybe.
so, like usual.. i will let you know the people that i brought.
So, there are some doctors from somewhere hospital at east jakarta. they are pensioners, love to shopping and they're nice actually even a bit archaic.they re nice but they convinced another families on group that they dont have to but the medicine there because its fake or what. i heard whisper, not so clear. a bit shocking actually. because i always inform the guests that we dont have to buy anything from here, if you just wanna check out your health (its free) and decide to not buy anything, its fine theres nothing to worry about that. but this visit is a must, because its from government and agent that have merger with Pano.
they complained about the alteration of itinerary. the forst itin they in hongkong, so they have much time to shopping etc, but then the final itin was changed, in Macau. i absolutely undertand what they feel, they have plan already, and because of the alteration, its ruin their plan. but i explain to them that itinerary could change any time, without any prior notice, and this alteration is from agent. they can change it urgently, and nothing we can do about that. we just try our best to give the service and everything, i as a tour leader do the same. always do the best and give the maximum services, but again.. there are several things that out of my control. like when they gave us the final itin. they complained about why final itin come out just 3 days before departure? well.. i as a tour leader got the same. The TL Fee, final confirmation and everything i got H-1. well, one of the reason is because the group is just materialized. so theres no one to blame.

okay, the second fam is the honeymooners. the 2 faces honeymooners. The HP family. they look nice from the start, although the lady ask to disneyland so badly. but she's nice, friendly and everything. i like her at the beginning. no doubt. but after days gone by.. i found things that make any tour leader suspicious. that claws, one boy one are coming out.  but seriously, she love to smile, love to talk, even she often take pictures with me and ask to went out together. all are fake, or maybe she disappointed because she cant get what she want. she ask that she want go to disneyland from the start, i explain her that we just have 2 days in hongkong. first day in hongkong- city tour, the next day we re going back to airport. so, if she want go playing around at disneyland, it cant be on the last day. it must be on the 4th day, but i told her i cant guarantee that she could go there, but i will try my best. i mean, if we have enough time and we finish all the tours on 2 pr 3 pm, she could go to disneyland definitely, but, again... no guarantee. of course i can't guarantee, im not a God, so i can't predict the future. so, unexpectedly when we across the border from Szx to Hkg, its crazily crowded, like there are five thousands people there. No joke.we re queuing for hours, its exhausting really and getting warm, hot and hotter. its really torturing. i feel pity with my guests. they re really tortured. but yeah we finish it eventually, but they dont get happy. not just the fake honeymooners who want go to disneyland so badly, but also the other people who join that tour. they disatisfied about the border, so we can't finish the city tour earlier, or 3 pm on schedule. but we just started the tour from 4 pm, and we just finish the tour on 8pm. most of them wanna go to mongkok and the other wanna go to cost way bay, well.. its an incident, but i get this as an experience, so later dont pass the border on weekend, but if we have to we have to go much earlier, because it was really hideous.
and this fake honeymooners, they re.. OMG.. i just can say OMG. they look nice, but okay.. i dont wanto say anything.. you guys can decide who they are.
so when they have to pay the tip, they wanna pay with local currency, i asked the local guide and she said okay so they pay the money, i gave them the change. 10 HKD. she said that tomorrow she want get the money, but that evening i already gave to them. and you know what? the husband HT said to his wife, that probably the money thai i gave them is fake, so pls separate it first then check to the money changer or what" in front of my face. its ridiculous. its 10 HKD not 100?!! hello??!! Are you unbelievable stingy or what? Even, THERE'S NO COUNTERFEIT MONEY THAT VALUE 10 HKD. THE MINIMUM IS 50 . If 10, the cost of production is more expensive then the value of that money itself. Okay, i tell to my self to keep calm.. 'Breath wiid....breath.."
and theres another story, well.. its quite embarassing if i in their position.
so, at the last night in Szx, the nice honeymooners ask me to hang out with them..so then we had dinner/supper with them, the FH and Mrs WL. we had dim sum together, they order milk tea and ocean what, i and mrs WL just enjoy our free warm tea. but when the bill's coming out, it said 245 RMB, the NH or PO family(nice honeymooners) gave 100 to both of them. well, it more than it should be. they're generous anyway, Mrs WL just gave 20 because she said she didnt eat much. i quite shock but then the FH said they will gave more, so ithink they will give another 100, but then they said that i have to pay the rest, 70. and i just open my eyes so widely, surprised. 70 just for myself. are you kidding me? but well, when i shocked they said "no no, you just have to pay 57" it still wrong, i know. but i dont want to debate it, because we dont have much time. we must back to the hotel.
and the next day, i realized that i being trapped. lols. so funny. so i asked them how much that they paid yesterday, and they said the money that they paid is enough. not more, not less (they said they paid more yesterday) , and i asked again how much? she answered 90. enough. but i felt clumsy about that, so gathered all of them..and i confirm about the bills. 247 - 100 (the NH), -57(Me) - 20 (Mrs WL) = 70. not 90. and i asked them re they sure they paid 90? i dont want to get money from cunning people like them. they re not just stingy, but also cunning. well, sorry if i m to harsh but that the truth.
if you know me well, you will know if i can angry with people, get mad with them, frustate because of them or can said their negative, its mean that they re so aweful. but well, i just write on my blog and i dont mention their name, so i guess im not that evil like them. and lets continue.. after i said that, they stare each other then the guy said " oh hunnie, we forgot. we paid 70, not 90." then they apologized and insist to pay me another 10, i decline. i said thankyou, i dont need to. seriously, its not because the money, but i need to know the truth, i dont like being cunned and trapped like that. if they acknowledge already, its fine to me. i guess that money is more important then their dignity.

they disappointed because they couldnt go to disney, then these things..and also the border.. so it won't make me that surprised if the lady give me hideous questionare, lols. her husband is better. even he's quite annoying sometimes, but he still fine.
well, she's totally fake. she said that even the local guide re miserable and everything, she lucky that have Tour leader like me, she said that im the best, cool and everything. OMG, so fake. I wanna throw up.
and she said she will add my LINE to send the pictures, but she never added. she just pretending add my number because i asked her at airport (on purpose) but then perhaps she delete it, because i make sure my number is right already. lols. so fake. so fake. eventhough she hate me because of the disney things, but perhaps she still feel bad if i find out that the one who make that hideous questionare is her, thats why on that QR, she strike streak her name and the address, she think i can't find out. even she streak with the bold pen, i still could see her address, and i ask the good guest that close to me where it is, in south or east jakarta, then she replied that address is 'THE FAKE's address. lols. so, i dont have much effort to know it.
she elude from me, but to know her phone number is just that easy. not because i have masterfile in my hand, but i can ask people that involved in this tour. i didn't say anything, i didn't assert anything, but i could quip her. just a soft innuendo. hehehe.. only for make her realize what she was doing and to make my feeling better. and its work. no offense for that. just try to imagine how if you guys in my position.

well, another family..
The SL family. OMG, this fam is one of my fav family. they're lovable, super nice and fab!!! i love them, they just fantastic!

they're old couple who join this tour for second honeymoon. i guess their children who pay for them. they never ask anything overwhelmed, they never complain anything, Mrs LD is so nice, friendly, elegant, meek and suave. they just so nice to me, and they love to smile, comforting me. and she said that my boyfriend look alike, or very look alike with her son-on-law. lols. she told me that her SOL love her daughter so much, then she couldnt imagine how come there is someone who love so badly, but he's protective and possesive. he didnt allow guy to cut his wife's hair. lols. quite unique. its remind me with my Iv. :p

then SS family. At first, they seems adorable, nice, and friendly. this family is one of the family that hv been to hongkong. well, he want go to many places and he suggest other families to visit that places. Nothing wrong with that. :) but theres one problem here, Mrs SM. she look so cute and soleha, seriously. i cant imagine that she could be sucks and a bit evil. well, i dont want to say much about her. but she treat me like a villein. well, maybe im too overwhelming. but seriously, u can feel it if u being me. she said harsh thing and when she want things that not a part of the itin, she insist it. and when i tried help her to figure it out, instead of being grateful or what, she even increasingky make the troublesome. and also, i didnt like the way she talk to me. to harsh, to rude. i dont like rude people.  i just dont presume that she's the bad girl in here, the provocateur. u will never assume her to be someone like that, because u cant judge people from their appearance right? because i get fooled. she so awful that i cant decribe within words, her husband is better, he seems nice and loving husband, and i guess he love his wife as well. but he affraid of his wife. lols.

The AR family, the lovely mother who love to smile with her pretty daughter. her daughter is quiet and dont like to socialize. the fake madam dislike her. she said that she give her up, like try to talking with her. but in my opinion, they re nice. her mother love to smile, and nice to me, her daughter even didnt talk much but she's nice too. i love sincere people. its better she didnt talk much but she have a good heart. so rare to find those guys.

The HW family, the same with above. the care and nice mother with her talketive and shopaholic adult daughter. lols. i quite close with this family. Mrs H is nice nice, and her daughter love to chit chat with me, talk about her maternity, her children and everything. she just a bit stingy :p and she quite annoying sometimes, but very sheldom. they quite fine :)

The PE family. Perhaps they re not young anymore, this lovely grandpa and grandma are sibling, they through many things a lot. i almost cried when i listen to Mrs E stories. so touched, and i couldnt breath. they're though, they're insipired me, and even i did mistakes sometimes, they understand it, they always spirit me, they gave me awesome questionares that i didnt deserve it.( im not perfect, i did mistakes, i learn from them, how to figure it out, how to solve them and avoid to do the same mistakes and minimize do another mistakes. well, experience make us better) , they understand me. :) they re so lovely and superb. deep in my heart, i love them, wish that they will through their old times happily. *hugs*

The PM family. they silence and blushful couple. i didnt say thy re honeymooners because they hv been married for several years ago but they dont have children yet. at first,i quite nervous when i talk to them, because they always expressed the flat expression. lols

Perhaps they not friendly, cheerful, talketive, or being chatterbox like the fake lady that i talked before..but they are nice and kind. when they start to talk, we talk quite much and this lady is really attractive. this couple not only perfect as  a couple by their appearance (they both handsome and beuatiful) but also humble and generous. :)

The PO family. wah wah, this family is my most fav among all. i wont tell theur name because its confidential, but bear in mind its in my blog so its quite fine to tell my stories, but i cant still reveal their name. they're nice, fun, adorable, amazing, the top one.

i didnt say this not because she love to treat me, but because their personalities and their kindness.

love you guys too. :)

so, because i already tell the stories above.. do i dont need to tell anything again. lols. so even everything going well on 3 days, but after we passed the border its ruin it all.

well, the thing that i have to do is give them the substitute. i must remind myself later, so if i got this kind of case again i know how to handle their anger.

Summer in Korea- KOP-07 0908/GA

Hi there! long time not post. not so so long time, but quite long i guess. i wanna share my good story. :)

i brought the group to Korea. yeay! i always love korea since i've been there. but if you wanna ask me how it feels when you going somewhere for vacation, just by yourself ( i mean not join the tour) and become a tour leader. its so different. definitely. every tour leader obviously know about this.

Personally, i love this group. i mean, this group is one of the best group that  i brought. or, so far this is the best group. i brought 5 families. there are Palembang family who consist 7 peoples, they are incredibly nice. The WW Family. there are 3 children here, 2 boys (one little boy) and a girl. they love to smile and friendly. and there are a grandpa and grandma who lovable. the second family is the TA family. they consist 4 peoples. actually when i heard mrs TN on the phone before, im affraid that she's not friendly or anything because her voice is so deep and stiff. but i was wrong. she's nice, but her husband and her two daughters are super nice. i celebrate one of her daughetr birthday, bought her cake, and either her daughter and her family are happy, and she bought me a faceshop lipstick. i like it, an anti wrinkle lipstick. hahaha. i dunno i hv to be happy or insulted. :p i like it, i like it. seriously.

i like them so much. they lovable and sweet.

and the third family, the trios HHH. this family is look like an ordinary family, but actually they're cool. the mother who looks classic, but actually super modern inside. she's a bit talkative, but okay for me. i guess i disappoint her because i cant owe her sum of money for bought the ginseng, and when she wanna borrow my credit cellphone, i said i dont have much, and it wouldnt be enough for her to call to indonesia. so i cant borrow her my credit not because im stingy, but pure because i dont have enough credit. i knew she disappoint because of her expression and her questionaire. she taks good about me, but at problem solving she said not satisfied, and she also dont like the local guide, the foods, the hotel. yeah, but im still relieved that she quite satisfied with me, and said good things instead of bad things about me. and the daughters? they are nice, the eldert is absolutely cool, nice, and fun. i like her, and the youngest is uncommunicative, she like kids. just like me. The third family, The JJ family, is one of my fav family. it consist one young pretty mother with two litte daughters and their grandma. the kids are adorable and nice, i like them and they like me. :)

i close to them. ^^

they re nice from the start, but at the end im not sure about the mother. she seems fine but not so excited. i dunno either she tired or what.

and the last family which one of the closest family to me, they re consist 6 people. the parents and their  4 children who mature enough. one of daughter have the same age with me. they re super nice and fun and the father is funny. they love to talk with me, chat with me. like them so much.

 

why this group is one of my fav? because not only they all are nice, fun, friendly etc, they also care and on time. superrrr on time. never late is not exactly, they re always gathered earlier than it supposed. well done!

 

and whe're gping to nami island, we had a super bad traffic jam for 5 hours more or less and they seems okay about it. they still smiling and not complaining.

they love the local guide, christine.

 

christine is a good local guide, she always guiding, she's nice, funny and helpful. and she like to bought me some foods. but sometimes she quite annoying actually. but still okay about it.

the photograph is excellent, he so helpful and amazing.

 

i met some of my friends there. it was a lot of fun. i always excited when i met my panorama friends at the destination. i met misjan and lia at mt sorak, we share stories, we ate snack, the i met misjan and firman at everland. i and firman ride several attractions and one of them, The T-express are horrifying. seriously. i dont wanna ever ever ride that anymore. huff. it almost killed me. hahaha.

 

 

summer in korea seems fine to me, compare to hongkong or china. summer in there are terrible, even the wind was scarry. its hot and could melt people.

well, in korea the wind is cool and fresh, although it quite shiny and sunny.

theres a day when it cloudy and windy. i love that day. like you guys know, i love rain. so of course i love cloudy. for windy, it depends. i like windy when summer, i dont like windy when its winter. lols. autumn is fine, but pls dont too windy.

 

because of the traffic, we re not visit petite france. firman dont like it, but i like it even it petite. lols.

i and firman visited hongdae, and he love it. of course he love it. Hongdae is one of my fav place in seoul.

 

i bought clothes at dongdaemun. i always wanna buy things when i visit korea. things there always catch my eyes. the clothes, accecories are suitable with my type. like you know, i love something simple, classic, ribbon and lace. so when i arrived dotta, i see many clothes that i like, i wanna buy all of them if im a billionaire. :(

so i bought two of them because of the discaunt. they re lovable, cute and not that expensive. :)

 

the families love shopping at myeongdong. me too. i bought bag there. and make up shops are everywhere. so i bought for my friends and myself etude, skin food, face shop at duty free and etude at hongdae, tony moly. wow. shopping, shopping and shopping.

 

korea drive me crazy. lols.

at the end, the guide gave me much snacks. the crunch punch. well, i love them. love this group as well :)

 

and the foods? excellent ^^

 

 

HZM-06 0624/CI-VD

This is my second time i bring group to Hongkong Shenzhen and Macau. but this second group is much much better. Not only the people that join this group, but also overall of the journey. i mean, before i got a lot of problems, almost all of the participants were visit hongkong, so they know all the things there and they didnt interest to look the shows etc, many requests and theres a couple who love to complain. moreover, there was an accident. it was hideous and horrible, i dont want to remember it. it was a dark memory that made me stressed, gloom and depressed. they sue me etc, i couldnt sleep for months, its haunted me and because of that i was grounded for 6 months, or less. and at that time i got 1st rank that supposed make me choose the group and destination that i want. pity me, but well finally its done. fiuhhh.. finally, so yeah i feel grateful that even that was my first time brought the group, and i got so much problem at once, but i can through it. it hard, but its not impossible. and i through it not alone, but with people who support me. my families, my besties, my iv, and especially my God that make me stronger and learn many things from it. 

well, be back to this group. Almost all of them never been to hongkong, i guess its quite great because they still feel the excitement etc, plus they nice. (not all of them) theres always a complainer. lols.

i brought 9 families. so many, isnt it?

First Family is LL family. actually they're not one family. it consist a mother with her son(autism) and 2 of them re his teacher. his autism school teacher and his monday school teacher. they re nice, all of them. Mr D is someone who complain about the mineral water (why they didnt get at first day), and about some other. when he didnt like something, he won't hesitate to tell me. he's to the point, and i like it. when he dont like things, he directly told me things that he didnt like but then he forgot it, and the questionaire its good. and, Mrs Na. Mrs Na is one of the super nice participants. she never complaint, she always smile and very very nice. i like her so much, and at the end of the tour she gave me a nice gift :) Then Mrs Cla, who is the mother who travelling with her son, she also nice. and they gave me a good questionaire. :)

Okay, 2nd family. SG family. it just consit of parents and their highschool daughter. they're nice, and the daughter Ms H slept in my room for a few days. she's nice, we get along and we talk much things. we went to disney together and we had breakfast together at disney hollywood and even they get a wrong ticket at disney and mrs M a bit complain about it and i explained to ther that i told the participants to check it first, she understand and all done good. the questionaires re great too. :)

The 3rd family. BM family, is the best of all. they re super nice and adorable. the parents, the lovely kid and the grandma. theres nothing much to say about them, they're perfect. and i wish i have much more participants like them. never complain, always happy and nice.

The 4th family. MR family. it just consist of parents and one daughter. they seems ordinary, but they re really rich. they bought a lot of things, like an enermous. and yeah, the father is  bit like to show off. :P but all of them re nice and the questionaire re excellent.

The 5th family is RW family, it also a little family that consist of parents and their little son who love to sleep and always get along with his dad. they're always on time, helpful, cooperative and nice. its also one of the best. they gave me a great questionaires. :)

The 6th Family, NS family. They're just an old couple who always romantic. they're funny and entertaining. lols.

The 7th Family, well its my fav number but the fact its the worst family here. it doesnt mean that theres a bad family, but what could i say? The NF family consist of parents and their 1 daughter and 1 son. the kids re nice, and didnt talk much. they're also not socialize. NF is the complainer family. the husband is always request many thing from the start, and he's talkative (by message) not in conversation. and his wife, OMG. she never smile. and she always complain all the time. about the foods, the guide etc etc. they gave me a bad questionaire but after that they get better, they being nicer. its quite strange actually.

The8th family, pretty number. it consist of a nice family. they're also one of the nicest. the singer and her husband with her pretty junior high daughter, who love thinkerbell and the fairies. at first because of the husband's photo i thought that he's a bit temperament and unfriendly but in fact they re so so friendly. the husband is temperament but he's nice. they treat me dinner at venetian. :) and their daughter accompany me to ride the gondola, the gondoliers have an extraordinary voice, so so beautiful.

The 9th Family, the Y family. In consist of 1 mother with her 2 daughters and 1 son, he's the eldest. they re also very veru nice, one of the best too. the mother is humble, care, and nice. and the kids re adorable, they love to chat with me, especially the 2nd daughter... she always wanna get around with me, hold my hand etc, talk with me, hug me. lols. she with the cute little kid and the pretty kid who love fairies. they adore me and called me "cc bidadari" lols. how adorable they are. love them.

yes, i miss them. i love this group.

everything going well, the hotels re great, the foods too, even i get a buffet dinner at venetian. yeay!!

from start to the end going well :)

thanks God. ^^

Rudy Salvator and Cecilia Niek's Wedding :)

Yesterday is one of my besties wedding day (cecilia Niq Sumana Putri and Rudy Salvator), i and Iv are involved to their big day. it was my pleasure when she asked me to be her bridesmaid. i and Niq met in 1996, we're soon become closed not because our character (we hv different character) but we re really have a great conversation and love the same things like drawing, writing, reading, rabbit, even the japanese history and harry potter :P. i like draw but im not expert in it, not like her who is expert. i love her drawing, it always great and amazed me. anyway, we're apart when we're junior high and we met again at Tiara kasih. lols. eventhough there are many students there and mostly are girls, but we still become bestfriend like we used to, plus jess and ana. we love to chit chat, we love to hang out together, we have fun together and share our good and bad times together, we support each other and cheer up one another. but lets not skip the important part, when she met rudy and soon become a couple. They seem just like an ordinary couple, they looks comfort each other and fit each other, but not like crazily in love. lols. Frankly, we never surmise that they will become husband and wife one day. our thought re just the same. but the thing that i knew from the start is they fill each other. they complete each other. we all know (including me, for sure) who is niq, how her character and rudy could make her smile and temper her.

 

As a teenager, we love to chit chat about relationship and wedding. we converse about who is getting married later. will be niq, me, ana or jess? ana recorded it, i and ana said niq will be marry first. i win! i win! well, niq must treat us!! yeay!! ^^v

 

well, we never know about the future. most people re often to start and end relationship many times, so like i said before..we never expect that niq and rudy will through this long journey to become one.

 

Niq and Rudy's journey wasnt easy at all. they have been 8 years already. they through many things together, including their hard times. Long Distance relationship isnt easy. we all know that. many people can't survived, but they survive. USA and Indonesia are separate billion of miles, they see each other once in 2 years, they talk with skypeor any social media. its hard, they must be had many miscommunication and jealousy. but after all the things that they experienced, at the end they still together..because they love each other.

they're not a perfect couple at the beginning, but they re trying to be better and better couple. now i see them as a perfect and happy couple ever. i can see through their eyes. they dont have to utter words, we can see their love to one another within their act and the way they look each other.

 

Okay, lets back to the teenager times. niq always dream to become a wonderful bride with a wonderful wedding party, just like every girl. but not like most of the girl's dream, she dont want to have a big fancy plush luxurious wedding party. she just want a simple private party that elegant, warm and impressive.

well, now she get it. she actualize it. she, with rudy's help make her dream come true.

 

Niq looked stunning in her wedding dress. not just her gown who make her look dazzled, but also her face. she look refulgent and splendent.

i know she's exhausted after all the things that she have to prepare before the wedding day, but its not cover her happiness. its obviously seen. ivan is agree with me. isn't it? ;)

 

The wedding party perhaps not going perfect and smooth but i and ivan (soon, would be we or us :p)  must admit their wedding is one of the greatest wedding that we attend. its not enermous, or resplendent, it just a small wedding party but it full of people who close to them, who care and love them, simple, warm, eminent, unique, preferential and impressive. i love the videos and the surprise that rudy gave niq. it just a simple video, not something excessive. but its touching and sweet. it really melt niq's heart, including me and all of the people who watched it. he said his word with serenity and sincerity.

he said thankyou that niq hv been willing to wait him and suffered all this long. "I'm glad that finally you're mine" is rudy last sentence to Niq. how touching. *start to sweep tears*

how a lovely wedding.

 

Gosh! i dont want to start cry again.

i feel all the feeling altogether.

it feel weird that one of your besties is marry, that we all aren't  single anymore, we're not young anymore, its time that we have to start our new journey, our new family.

 

so, for Rudy and Niq..it isnt a happy ending story but a new beginning for both of you.

perhaps it won't be easy, it won't be happy all the time, you both must be face the hard times together. but i believe that you both can through and pass that hard times together, with trust, faith and love. you both aren't two anymore, but one. you both hv to filled each other like you both used to, through all the good and bad times together, for better for worse till death do tear you both apart.  I know that you both can do it! ;)

 

im not crying because i lost my besty.

(hmm, a bit perhaps :p) but im crying because im happy that you are married niq! you found your soulmate!

i wish nothing but all the best things and happiness for rudy and niq.

 

its hard to say goodbye, because you have to move to united states.

but i believe that many good things wait you there and i bet you will be happy there. i envy you. move to united states would be awesome! hehehe...

i and ivan(hopefully) could visit you both there, when we're officially married(hopefully) later. :p

 

Once again,

CONGRATULATION TO MR AND MRS SALVATOR.

WISH THE GOODNESS AND HAPPINESS TO YOU BOTH NEW FAMILY!

HAPPILY EVER AFTER DEAR!

LOVE YOU!

 

xoxo;

iv-iw

Iv's Bday (11.04.2013)

Today is my Iv's bday!! yeay!!
I dont want to give him surprise on 00.00 11 apr because it just too ordinary, so i try another way.
He always work-lat since he work at head office, so i decide to give him surprise at his office. well, i know that he already expect that i will give him surprise but he doesnt know where or when i will give him.
so, i call friend of mine, Cia who work at unilever. she gave me so much information, the secretary phone numb, his office, his floor, his desk. its really useful. THANKS NISSIA a.k.a Cia! xD
i still congrats him in the morning, because i know that he will be suspicious if i didnt congrats him. he know that i couldnt forget his birthday. but its possible if i forgot what date is today. lols.
i ever did it before with one of my besties, and she a bit angry. haha.
i also update my status for him, so he won't that sure. and a bit hesitate. 
i asked my bro to drive today. we used to used motorcycle, but today is exception. we went early morning because would be traffic if we late just a few minutes.. really.
then, we re going to cheesecake factory.  a bit puzzled which cake that i choose. the tripple cheesecake (look so yummy) and the tiramisu cake. but after a while of considering and deliberate with ky, i decide to bought the toramisu one. i never cheesecake's fact cake. it taste good. i mean, mostly. 
but for cheesecake, The Harvest is still my fav, but i already got that cake hundreds of time :p, Secret Recipe is also taste good. If wanna by chocolate, try 'Dapur Cokelat' at Greenville. its quite famous for chocolate cake. and anyway, ky also contribute for the cake. how sweet he is. :)
he really concern with his brother-in-law ;)

well, let's skip skip skip the office hours. 
its 18.00 already and he hasnt arrived yet. i feel sleepy and anxious at the same time. 40 minutes later, he arrived already bring the cake, and we ready to go. but soon after that, iv said that he wanna go home because today is his bday. well, sounds fair. he cant work-late on his own bday rite? so we decide to go to the busway stop and i will stand beside the door so when he arrived and the door open, i can step when people re coming out and wait iv. he must be totally surprised. i cant wait! xD
so, here's the plan: i and ky will go to his house, park the car and we join with his dad to the bus stop. we cant park our metalic car there, because he will notice, our jazz colour is too bright and will rivet one's attention, so park there is a bad idea. 
but when we arrived at his house area, its really difficult to seek his house. i couldnt remember his house because all the lane and the house re just look the same for me. and when we asked the people there, they dont have any idea where V street is. its kinda desperating. erggh.
finally i called his dad, and his dad arrived at the bus stop already, so i decide to go there but his dad insist that its better to me to just wait at iv's house. he also said that perhaps we couldnt make it, and my bro agree with that, so my plan isnt work out. make me feel blue, just a bit.  huff.
so when i arrived at his house, i put my gift at his bedroom, i hide my shoes under the chair and my bag at his other room. and i hide myself at the kitchen and prepare the cake and the candle. while i still prepare and light the candles, iv and his dad come home and he said out loud to the lil girl at his house (his mom's student) that her face looks strange, like theres something..and he said that he found my shoes so loud, its constantly made me dejected. Gosh, i know that today is his birthday and i just want to make him happy on his birthday but i must admit i hate him at that time. he dont respect and appreciate my effort. but i still come out, grimace and sing with discordant sounds, and i didnt care anymore. haha.
i try really hard to have smile on my face. we take pictures, eat dinner "udon with meatballs and mushroom" together. we had a bad bad bad and awkward moment. he smiled before, but because i treat him badly it alos make his mood swing. he hate me as well. 
wow. how great! failed brthday surprise, bad moment and bad feeling. the come all-together.
i just cant help it! i mean, i hate him constantly and just for a moment  i become an evil and selfish lady ever.
its his birthday and i just concern baout my failed surprise and his bad act response me. 
it takes me a while til i calm down and convinced myself that its his birthday and no matter what i felt, his feeling is the most important. i cant ruin it. because the main point of my surprise is to make him happy, not the surprise itself. surprise is just a way to make him happy.
i try to get my mood better and its get better, and also his. lols.
we end up great, we have a great chit chat with his parents, i get introduced with his cousin, a girl who look alike with him, and we take many picts, its so lovely. i asked him to look the gift, he must tried it because tomorrow is the last day we can change the shoes if the number didnt fit to his.
but its fit perfectly, and he loves it! how great!! xD

after that, we re going to the sevel, meet up ky and his friend. his nice friend. lols.
iv bought me a vanilla and chocolate Millefoglie D'italia mini Snack. its my fav snacks in beijing. lols. one of my favs, i correct. lols.

and he also bought me a cheese mash potato. yummy. super.
i went home happy and he look happy too. :)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SWEETHEART :)
LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND sorry ... 

xxxo;
Iwid 

Terrific Easter xD

Today is easter! Iw and Iv will celebrate their first easter together! how nice!

so early in the morning, he pick me up on 06.30 am and im ready to go! I dont forget to wear my ring, spirt my perfume (really nice fragrance :D), pick the gifts for his cousins and ready to go.

we dont talk much in the car, he focused on the street and i turn on the musics from my mipad. we talk sometimes, but not much. he seems tired, and so do I. sleepy...sleepy... 0.0

well, after short time..we arrived at church, iv's parents already there. i met his mom, enounce happy birthday to her, give her slight kisses on the cheeks, and taking them pictures with the easter bunny and the eggs. how a lovely family :D and lovely picts.

soon after that, we enter the church..ready to worship. after the mass is ended, i meet some of their friends. there was tere (one of ivmom's student) and her parents, theyinsist ask us to have breakfast with them. they really force us! lols. well, so soon after that we bought ice cream. 'banana smoothies' by buavita, unilvere product. Iv said its yummy, so we bought for ourselves and for Tere's family that consist her, her brother, her parents and her aunty. Iv's mom said thats its too sweet, and too much milk..but because im one of those banana lover and milk, i could say that i love it! its really banana and milk. hmm, yum yum! :D

we have dim sum at Imperial Chef's. I LOVE DIM SUM! Did i ever mention before? well, if i haven't, i tell you now. I love dim sum, and I tried many all you can eat dim sum almost at 7 or 8 restaurants in Jakarta, not all of them. because it isnt good to taste something that u not sure its delicious or not even its cheap.

well, we ate quite many variety...

Fish porridge (****)

Cakwe (*****) why i give 5 stars? because its crunchy and not oily and taste good.

Another kind of cakwe that wrapped with ce ceong fan (****)

Dove's soup. (****) taste so good, but not fav. so ive 4 stars. i never taste dove's soup before.

Hakau (*****) hakau is always nice, and hakau is one of my fav all time. the shrimp re big, crunch and fresh.

Shrimp spring rolls (*****)

Fried Shrimp Dumpling (*****) crunchy and savoury.

Fried Taro with the meat inside it. (****) savoury and delicate.

A bun with the salted eggs and srikaya inside it (*****) sweet, mellow and delicate. i tasted it before in Yong he Kong, Beijing. love it!

Hrp , a kind of sticky rice with meat inside. i dont give stars, because i dont taste. I didn't taste it because i can't eat that. but i guess its savoury! :)

well, we ate all of them and getting full. like so full.

after that we back to Iv's house.. iv change his clothe, i have a small conversation with his mom, and she gave me candle ice 'es lilin', i took the soursop fruit. nice nice. i mean not the ice, but his mother. :)

after that we re going to emporium.

we bought the tickets for 14.40, Olympus Has fallen then we went to J.co, bought a couple yoghurt, not really enjoy that.

soon after that, we decice to take a walk, go to the car, put the powerbank and we're going to the cinema, we order the caramel popcorn which is small and expensive. well, we love caramel..but i decide that we just to have buy the sweet popcorn next time, because its much cheaper and much bigger. :D hehehe..

Actually iv and I got a wrong assessment. but well, thats fine. i think it would be great, hope so. its about the terorist thing.

 and we really enjoy watching it. and i really wanna watch The Host next time. i will ask iv to watch with me, because it must be awkward to watch the Science Fiction and romance with your parents. lols.

after watch, we have dinner together.

firstly, we wanna taste Raffel's. looks really good, the burger is big and looks so yummy, i never taste it before, and it turns out Iv also never taste it too. hahaha.

we wanna taste it, but we dont like the environment,it just too open. there's no privacy and incovenient. not because we wanna do things, but we just dont like it. i personally dont like noice, crowded and loud voices. i love cozy place, tranquil and homey with the soothing sounds/ music. ;)

well, after we going round and round, finally we decide to eat Ta Wan. we order beef pitanporrideg (my fav)large portion, broccoli scallop with Ta Wan sauce which is really tasteful, and dori enokki, also taste nice. we enjoy the dinner with taking pictures, having nice conversation and joking around. it just feel so great.

well, after that we re going to the ben dad's funeral. and there re some of bens's besties and iv's friends join there. I thought it would be awkward, but its not at all. ben quite surprised when he saw me, but he could handle it.

we attend the mass, then we ate the suki. i never ate suki at the funeral before. we used to eat porrige, generally.

but the suki taste good. after we hving conversation and enjoy the food, we decice to get home. iv looked not well, he look exhausted and sleepy. in the car, we still hving conversation, eat fruits and nutella crisp from his cousin (love it!), and when we arrived..he said happy easter to my dad, and my parents give the gifts to his parents.

so, today is really going great!!! SO TERRIFIC!! xD

and i have new clothe! cant wait to wear it!

HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE!

HOPE YOU ENJOY THIS EASTER TOO! :D

Good Friday :D

This Easter was really great for me. i mean, terrific! :D
so i spent Good Friday with Iv and my family and spent Easter with his family. perhaps it seems common to some people, but not for me. i never invite my bf or had meals together (eithers its breakfast, lunch, dinner, brunch, supper or any else like that. ) with my family. because i felt it just to intense for me. Before, i never invite my bfs not just because my parents is a picky parents, which they would not like if i invite my bfs to having meals together if thet dont disagree with our relationship (which they never agree before) but dispite of their agreement, i also feel incovenient to invite my bf hving meals with my family. So i decided i will invite my bf, if imsure with him. So, this is it. Iv is really a good bf, he's not just romantic as i ever mention before, but he also faithful, dutiful and i feel he really love me, because he wanna meet and introduced to my besties (we have several double dates appointment later) and he also introduce me to his besties and friends, he want to spend quality time with my family and he also want me to spend quality time with his family, which is incredible because most of my exes never concern about that. not because they didnt care. 
so, good friday is coming (March 29) and he came on time (or earlier) => [ i love this guy! he almost never makes me waiting and appreciate our appointment) and we re going to the saloon (across my house), he cut his hair while i watching his cute face, take picts and was playing games. after that, we back home..my parents looks exhausted. my dad was sleeping when i got home and my mom busy with something else, and me prepare for the lunch. so, whats the menu for today? its my fav actually, and would be iv's fav dish later. he always love what i love :p Actually we love some of dishes and snacks.
so, the menu today are: sweet chilli mushroom and fried cauliflower. well, perhaps sounds weird to you, but trust me its so yummy. Iv like usual ( i dunno whats wrong with him to be honest), he's not just love staring or watching me while we re watching movies together, he also love to take picts of me or videoing me. i mean, im not photogenic and look great in front of the camera. i could bet that video must be aweful. i must be look messy, sweaty, not great at all. he's rec me while i was cooking. hmm...
i wanna delete his video, but he never let me.
errggghh...

okay, after all finished, i called my parents and my bro. we ate together and the lunch went great.
that day was the first time iv having meals together with my fam.
we( i and iv with my fam) couldnt attend mass together. its because my parents re the easter comittee. well, thts fine. later maybe. actually since we all re the church activists, we re so sheldom( i wanna use this world, i kinda miss it :p) to had mass together. but yeah, with bro or mom still fine. my dad is an archdean, so he definitely couldnt attend the mass together with us. :(

so, i attend the mass just with iv. Kiky with his friends, and it would be awkward if we join them. lols.
before the mass, ky and iv played ps together at ky's bedroom. they sounds and look really enjoy the games. i can heard they yelling from downstair, my dad was heard too. lols.
i took the fruits with me to upstair and eat that while watching them play. my heart feel so warm and happy that my bf could be close with my bro, and he will being close to with my fam later. :)

at 2.00 pm we decided go to the church, i mom and iv with his car, and ky with this friends.
the mass start on 3.00 pm (weird, not raining since its always raining on good friday as long i could remember) iv like to share the book together with me, even we have 2 books. then, after the mass end, we re back home for a while just to took my ring, i wear it and also him.
we're going to my second house, puri mall. puri is kinda small, but i always love that mall. really feel convenient and nice. okay, so after we arrived there.. we re looking for iv mom's bday gift. iv wanna bought her a belt and a bag. so after we keep searching and searching, finally we found a belt at The executive and a bag at GaleriKeris. Finally we found one! (the bag i mean) because its really hard to find the good one. and the handbag look nice :)

after we get the gifts (i meet our fam's close friends) we decide to have dinner. today we just could eat veggies, so we went to Tawan, but its very crowded there just like usual, so we re going to Pizza Hut (but it hv long queue) so we re going to Din Tai Fung ( we never been here before), we wanna order porridges, but theres not porridge yet, so we order tofu. iv interest with fried tofu seaweed enokki ( we love mushroom) and i interest with the tofu coated with salted eggs (tofu telur asin) i love everything with 'telur asin' whether its shrimp, tofu, poultry, anything. lols. and we also order jiao zi ( a kind of dumpling that filled with tofu (again) and veggies), we like the dishes. quite nice and the portion is fine. (not that big and not small), but to be honest i dont like the price. din tai fung is quite expensive personally. because we spent 200k up just for that not-meat dishes. well...
i had a funny story while we re eating there. there was one family who sit beside our table. husband and wife with their mother. this family is really interesting. they keep complaining since they arrived. they complained about the meals, then the husband want to change the 4-dumpling to 10-dumpling, and the wife also wanna change their sour sweet soup with asparagus soup, but she can't..because the soup is ready. and the wife is unhappy, she said she just order 5-10 minutes ago, how come the soup is ready? so she said it must be not fresh. lols. and again, the husband ask the waitress about the tea that he ordered. he ask what tea leaf that they used to make that tea, and is it a chinese tea? because he cant sleep if he drank chinese tea, thats why he order a general tea. he insist ask the tea leaf that they used. and eventhough they explain already, he still keep asking. hewww. the husband said overall dish there arent good, and the wife said perhaps it because he didnt order the right dish. well, they also talking about our dishes. 
weirdo..

well, after we're full.. we look the stuffs, bracelet. (actually its me who look around and iv accompany me :p) and after that we re going to downstair, queue for milk tea. iv insist to pay mine, but i win. yeheey :D

after that, we back home. :) :)
 really nice good friday, isn't it? ;)

Iv-Iw's picts