Sunday, May 5, 2013

Rudy Salvator and Cecilia Niek's Wedding :)


Yesterday is one of my besties wedding day (cecilia Niq Sumana Putri and Rudy Salvator), i and Iv are involved to their big day. it was my pleasure when she asked me to be her bridesmaid. i and Niq met in 1996, we're soon become closed not because our character (we hv different character) but we re really have a great conversation and love the same things like drawing, writing, reading, rabbit, even the japanese history and harry potter :P. i like draw but im not expert in it, not like her who is expert. i love her drawing, it always great and amazed me. anyway, we're apart when we're junior high and we met again at Tiara kasih. lols. eventhough there are many students there and mostly are girls, but we still become bestfriend like we used to, plus jess and ana. we love to chit chat, we love to hang out together, we have fun together and share our good and bad times together, we support each other and cheer up one another. but lets not skip the important part, when she met rudy and soon become a couple. They seem just like an ordinary couple, they looks comfort each other and fit each other, but not like crazily in love. lols. Frankly, we never surmise that they will become husband and wife one day. our thought re just the same. but the thing that i knew from the start is they fill each other. they complete each other. we all know (including me, for sure) who is niq, how her character and rudy could make her smile and temper her.
 
As a teenager, we love to chit chat about relationship and wedding. we converse about who is getting married later. will be niq, me, ana or jess? ana recorded it, i and ana said niq will be marry first. i win! i win! well, niq must treat us!! yeay!! ^^v
 
well, we never know about the future. most people re often to start and end relationship many times, so like i said before..we never expect that niq and rudy will through this long journey to become one.
 
Niq and Rudy's journey wasnt easy at all. they have been 8 years already. they through many things together, including their hard times. Long Distance relationship isnt easy. we all know that. many people can't survived, but they survive. USA and Indonesia are separate billion of miles, they see each other once in 2 years, they talk with skypeor any social media. its hard, they must be had many miscommunication and jealousy. but after all the things that they experienced, at the end they still together..because they love each other.
they're not a perfect couple at the beginning, but they re trying to be better and better couple. now i see them as a perfect and happy couple ever. i can see through their eyes. they dont have to utter words, we can see their love to one another within their act and the way they look each other.
 
Okay, lets back to the teenager times. niq always dream to become a wonderful bride with a wonderful wedding party, just like every girl. but not like most of the girl's dream, she dont want to have a big fancy plush luxurious wedding party. she just want a simple private party that elegant, warm and impressive.
well, now she get it. she actualize it. she, with rudy's help make her dream come true.
 
Niq looked stunning in her wedding dress. not just her gown who make her look dazzled, but also her face. she look refulgent and splendent.
i know she's exhausted after all the things that she have to prepare before the wedding day, but its not cover her happiness. its obviously seen. ivan is agree with me. isn't it? ;)
 
The wedding party perhaps not going perfect and smooth but i and ivan (soon, would be we or us :p)  must admit their wedding is one of the greatest wedding that we attend. its not enermous, or resplendent, it just a small wedding party but it full of people who close to them, who care and love them, simple, warm, eminent, unique, preferential and impressive. i love the videos and the surprise that rudy gave niq. it just a simple video, not something excessive. but its touching and sweet. it really melt niq's heart, including me and all of the people who watched it. he said his word with serenity and sincerity.
he said thankyou that niq hv been willing to wait him and suffered all this long. "I'm glad that finally you're mine" is rudy last sentence to Niq. how touching. *start to sweep tears*
how a lovely wedding.
 
Gosh! i dont want to start cry again.
i feel all the feeling altogether.
it feel weird that one of your besties is marry, that we all aren't  single anymore, we're not young anymore, its time that we have to start our new journey, our new family.
 
so, for Rudy and Niq..it isnt a happy ending story but a new beginning for both of you.
perhaps it won't be easy, it won't be happy all the time, you both must be face the hard times together. but i believe that you both can through and pass that hard times together, with trust, faith and love. you both aren't two anymore, but one. you both hv to filled each other like you both used to, through all the good and bad times together, for better for worse till death do tear you both apart.  I know that you both can do it! ;)
 
im not crying because i lost my besty.
(hmm, a bit perhaps :p) but im crying because im happy that you are married niq! you found your soulmate!
i wish nothing but all the best things and happiness for rudy and niq.
 
its hard to say goodbye, because you have to move to united states.
but i believe that many good things wait you there and i bet you will be happy there. i envy you. move to united states would be awesome! hehehe...
i and ivan(hopefully) could visit you both there, when we're officially married(hopefully) later. :p
 
Once again,
CONGRATULATION TO MR AND MRS SALVATOR.
WISH THE GOODNESS AND HAPPINESS TO YOU BOTH NEW FAMILY!
HAPPILY EVER AFTER DEAR!
LOVE YOU!
 
xoxo;
iv-iw